Imagine this situation:
You see an extremely good-looking person and want so badly to approach her…but you can’t.
Or you approach a girl and then, as you get nearer, your heart starts beating louder and louder with your every step until when you finally get to where the person is….your heart beat is too loud for you to hear your mind think, and you ended up stuttering – or worse, saying nothing at all?
Yeah, it happens, even to the best guys in the business. That’s because we often assign women HIGHER VALUE than ourselves, and picture them as “unapproachable” or “too good for us.” We think ourselves not good enough to talk to gorgeous women, and thus….we never do. Or fail in attracting her if we get that far.
Well, mark your calendar. Today is the last day you are ever going to be nervous around women. Today, you DISMANTLE your approach anxiety and learn how to have AWESOME conversations with women, all the time. Even if you think you’re boring and uninteresting!
Think I’m kidding around? I am not. I believe every guy, no matter how short, nervous, or shy he is, has an inner AWESOME MAN that is waiting to come out and BEDAZZLE women.
I know this because I have seen it firsthand. Guys who previously thought themselves too short, too ugly, too poor to attract gorgeous women…go out there and amaze them with great conversation starters, approach techniques, and hot first dates that lead to amazing relationships with these gorgeous women.
So what do you do? Follow these 3 tips and you will see your success with women change, literally, overnight:
1) Assume higher status than women. No, don’t be arrogant and smarmy. Just remember that you ARE on the same playing field as even the hottest of hot babes. You are an AWESOME MAN that women are just waiting to discover. The ones who turned you down, don’t know what they’re missing! Assume a high status and a RESPECT for yourself, and women will see it. Women FOLLOW THE LEAD of men, so take the lead and show them you’re a man with confidence and energy.
2) Tease before you please. Please, please, PLEASE do not try to satisfy women with your ‘nice guy’ skills and great listening abilities first. Yes, those are good when you are IN A RELATIONSHIP. But until she’s ready to go steady–you gotta TEASE her before you please her! Joke with her, put her down playfully (“You are SO into yourself! Get over yourself; you’re making me sick!”), and show you don’t NEED her.
A man who NEEDS women’s approval…will never get it.
3) Amaze, then retreat. I love this technique. It’s based on the awesome guy movie, “The Tao of Steve.” You show her a special skill of yours–and you do have one. It can be something as simple as a funny joke or a cool card trick. Make her laugh and go “wow” with some ability, while not TRYING to please her (if you show you NEED her approval, you won’t get it!).
Then, as you can sense she’s interested and wants to continue the conversation–LEAVE. Tell her you’re off to see some friends, or gotta get to an important meeting, whatever. Say, “Hey, I gotta run, but let me do you a favor. How about I get your number so you don’t wonder why I didn’t ask you out?” It may sound cocky, and to a degree it is–it’s cocky funny. And it works.
Women go CRAZY over a man who they THINK is interested in them…and then who leaves. It gets them thinking to maddening levels. So if you get in her head, you’ll get in her heart. And that’s when you’re ready to roll and take things to the next level!
If you’re truly serious about wanting to really, really communicate with women, then discover a new way to tear down the walls of anxiety and ‘no luck’ with Conversation Chemistry.
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