Silly Pick Up Lines To Make A Woman Laugh

| April 13, 2012

“Pick­ up” lines focused on humor tend to fall flat but they do get the pick up artists rat­ed as rel­a­tively humorous and so­cia­ble, and aren’t dis­fa­vored by wom­en seek­ing brief li­ais­ons, a new study sug­gests.

“Flip­pant pick-up lines, so of­ten used by men to im­press wom­en, of­ten back­fire,” the re­search­ers said, de­tail­ing their find­ings in the Nov­em­ber-Dec­em­ber is­sue of the Jour­nal of So­cial Psy­chol­o­gy. The study focused on comments men make to try to jumpstart con­tact with wom­en,using Humor To Attract Women ra­ther than those used by wo­men on men, as wom­en are “more of­ten the re­cip­i­ents of pick-up lines,” and “are of­ten more discriminating” in mate choice, the re­search­ers noted.

In a sur­vey, they asked 70 fe­male uni­vers­ity stu­dents how positively they would re­spond to var­i­ous ap­proach lines from men un­der dif­fer­ent cir­cum­stances. Pre­vi­ous re­search had shown this type of sur­vey to yield re­sults that line up well with wom­en’s real-life re­ac­tions to pick up at­tempts in bars, Senko and Fyffe said. This past re­search had al­ready in­di­cat­ed that “flip­pant” pickup lines work poor­ly. But it had­n’t fully ex­plained why, and had al­so suf­fered some method­olog­i­cal flaws fixed in the new re­search, Senko and Fyffe claimed.

The pair stud­ied the ef­fects of “flip­pant” lines such as “can I get a pic­ture of you so I can show San­ta what I want for Christ­mas?” Wom­en rat­ed men who used such open­ing gam­bits, as op­posed to oth­er types, as rel­a­tively high on hu­mor­ous­ness and so­cia­bil­ity, but low on trust­wor­thi­ness and in­tel­li­gence.

Using Humor To Attract Women

“Wom­en rate the lat­ter qual­i­ties more es­sen­tial than the form­er ones in a long-term mate,” the re­search­ers wrote. Hu­mor might not or­di­narily sig­nal low in­tel­li­gence, they added, but the type of canned hu­mor usu­ally found in pickup lines could.

Two types of non-“flippant” pickup lines were al­so used in the sur­vey for com­par­i­son. One type was the “di­rect” line, such as “I saw you across the room and knew I had to meet you. What’s your name?” The oth­er was the “in­nocu­ous” sort that con­ceals ro­man­tic in­tent, thus mak­ing re­jec­tion more bear­a­ble. An ex­ample: “You look really fa­mil­iar. Have we tak­en a class to­geth­er?”

The sur­vey re­sults saw the “flip­pant” lines scorned by wom­en who were asked to im­ag­ine them­selves seek­ing a long-term mate. But for wom­en asked to think of them­selves seek­ing a short-term mate, the type of pickup line did­n’t mat­ter, the re­search­ers found: in­stead, the man’s per­ceived at­trac­tive­ness was the key fac­tor in the wom­an’s re­cep­ti­vity.

“Di­rect” pickup lines gave the best re­sults on av­er­age, but the out­come dif­fer­ences be­tween them and the “in­nocu­ous” lines weren’t sta­tis­tic­ally sig­nif­i­cant.

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