How To Pick Up Girls At Clubs
Part of the blueprint for a successful pickup requires you to look good. Let me give you some quick advice to help you look and feel your best just in time for your next romp.
Get On A Regular Workout Routine
Logging an hour in at the gym will will have a more relaxing, confidence-building effect than just about any illicit narcotic you could foolishly ingest, and it’s good for you. Being a regular at the gym will result in you looking and feeling better, and consequently you’ll be more attractive to women.
Improve Your Fashion
The truth is, when you pay attention to how you look and are meticulous about the clothes you wear, you signal to women that you’re a man of HIGH VALUE. Despite what you might think, girls are not in perpetual pursuit of their next makeover project. Wondering what type of clothes you should pick out for yourself? All you need to do is hit the department store at your local mall, and get advice from the cutest salesgirl. She’s there to help…and hey, striking up a conversation with a sexy salesgirl is never a bad idea..
Most guys have a “hygiene regimen” that simply consists of a quick shower and then slapping on some deodorant and splashing cologne all over themselves. When you shower, use body wash and scrub every part of your body. In fact, scrub every part TWICE. You could be hooking up later with a girl, and she’ll be a lot more sensitive to smells and funky scents than you are.
Make Your Arrival Early
Wherever you decide to go for a night out, you should show up early enough so you can obtain some real estate. A table, a corner of the bar or whatever else you can get your hands on will prove to be a treasured commodity in a busy venue where the bump ‘n’ grind is a trip to the bar, not just a cheesy dance move.
This will be your “safe zone” where you can feel in command of the situation. You can make trips out onto the dance floor or to other parts of the venue to meet girls, and you can always bring them back to your spot for a drink. As the night progresses, stock your table with a few cool girls that are entertaining to hang out with. They’ll serve as a “magnet” to attract other girls to your table. The REAL players are all sitting down and looking comfortable and relaxed — not standing around watching everyone else have a good time.
Now that you’ve marked your territory, you need to get a feel for your surroundings by doing a few laps around the venue. As you do, carefully study all the signs — the body language and eye contact — that will help you determine who to pay a visit to as the night progresses.
The right amount of liquid courage can do wonders for your self-esteem, take my verbal skills from Bush to Obama heights and put your joke-telling abilities on a level remiscient of famous joke-tellers such as Larry David and Louis C.K. However, when you go “over the line” with your alcohol consumption, as in paying homage to Motley Crue’s hard-drinking glory days, will only make you look foolisy. Your inner turmoil will come gushing out like Niagara Falls and your amusing rhetoric will be decreased to an incoherent drone, so practice graceful inebriation.
Make Your Move
Whether your end goal is to score her phone number, a tour of her condo or plunging into a serious relationship, you’re going to need to put forth the necessary effort. Keep in mind, the alternative is a night alone on the couch in front of an infomercial. Now, get off your duff and start punching the clock.
If you see something you like, wait for an opportune moment — like her standing at the bar next to you or taking leave of her 18 friends for two valuable minutes — to seize it and tell her. This method is sink or swim, but at least you’ll know where you stand without wasting time trying to gauge the probability of her ending up on all fours.
When she is within earshot and can hear what you’re saying, you can make a comment about the environment…her cool necklace or tattoo…or some dorky-looking dude at the other end of the car who’s been checking her out. Whatever yoru comment is based on, just make sure she understands what you are referring to.
While you’re at it, dispense with all the flash and half-truths nightlife is notorious for. There’s no need to lie about your vintage Ford Taurus or embellish the amount of money you make (which women see as a sign that you’re trying to compensate for something else you lack — i.e. penis size). You’ll find that being honest and direct with women is a better policy, and you’re also communicating confidence this way. You can even be self-deprecating sometimes and joke around about your own vulnerabilities. Only a confident guy would be unafraid to talk this way about himself.
Guys who have a “mysterious edge,” and aren’t easy to figure out right away, are intriguing to women. Convey this aura by not revealing too much of yourself at once. Don’t introduce yourself by name right away. Open her, use some of the conversational routines in the Mack Tactics book, and jack up her interest and curiosity before you tell her your name. Keep her guessing — if she asks you what you do for a living, blow it off with a joke. (“I’m a lion tamer.” “I’m an ass model.” “I’m a professional gigolo.” Etc.) Then direct the spotlight back to her by asking her a question. Likewise, you should spread out all personal information over time to keep her guessing.
Furthermore, you don’t want to spend the entire night with her. We tend to think of women in terms of conquests because they often play hard to get, but you can make yourself the conquest by periodically leaving her side, revisiting home base where your friends are stationed or even flirting with a rival woman. Being a challenge will leave her wanting more.
YOU Have To Make It Happen!
Willpower and persistence aren’t enough to compel a woman to fork over her phone number, or drop her panties. The bottom line is, it’s up to you to make things happen and lead her down the right path. Remember, you’re not going to a bra burning rally; you’re going to a club, where most of the women are expecting you to approach them — not the other way around. Don’t be timid. Go for it. The strategies I’ve laid out in this article (along with the techniques that are taught in the “Mack Tactics” book) require you to show some BALLS. You’ve got to be pro-active! If the thought of approaching women freaks you out, you seriously need to ask yourself: what’s the worst that could happen?
You aren’t going to score with a hottie every time. Occasionally, even the best pickup artist winds up at a late-night diner wolfing down cheeseburgers with his buddies.Don’t get unrealistic expectations, and never beat yourself up if you suffer through a bad night where the conversations simply won’t go your way. There’s always tomorrow!
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