Ever wondered how to get a girl to like you? It is a lot easier than most people realise. Common misconceptions include having to be good looking, tall and rich in order to get hot girls to like you. The truth is this is simply not true, girls like guys with good social skills. This includes being able to make girls laugh, not being creepy or needy and being confident. Your friends may have told you in the past to “Be confident” but in reality this is rubbish. If you are feeling nervous, how you can’t suddenly just flick a switch in your brain and become confident surely?
This article will look at correcting your mindset to that you know how to get a girl to like you. This will have a dramatic impact when you understand what your correct attitude should be and you know some specific things to say and do to spike attraction from a girl.
Have you ever been given some advice by a guy or a girl that involved the phrase “just be yourself”. But hold on a second, isn’t being yourself what you have been doing up to this point in time? If this hasn’t been working until now, then perhaps another approach is required. Instead of being yourself, how about being your best self? The way to do this is to think long and hard about how you want others to perceive you, what you want in life and what kind of friends and girlfriends you want.
Your behaviours and actions should be consistent with these values. The important thing is to stick to them. If you believe in one thing, don’t change your position just to agree with someone else, especially a hot girl. If you disagree or don’t like a point of view, then voice your opinion. You will gain so much more respect for having boundaries than for agreeing with everything everyone says. However, don’t be the guy that always causes an argument and disagrees with everyone just for the sake of it. Make sure it is genuine.
So how do you become confident? The real answer is you practice and gain successes then become confident. There are some tricks here to speed up the process. Do not put girls on a pedestal in your mind, even very attractive girls. This is a sure fire way to get put in the friend zone or get used by girls. This means that you shouldn’t go out of your way for girls unless they earn it. For example, don’t buy girls drinks or give them rides in your car just to get their attention and a bit of time together. Girls can read these situations very well and will lose attraction for weak guys that do this.
The more girls that you talk to, the easier you will find it to get them attracted to you. If you are only interested in one girl right now, take the time to talk to others even if you have to force yourself. At the very least this will improve your skills with women.
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