Many of the most attractive females are drawn to elusive males. Any guy playing the seduction game has most likely had a girl stringing along, but when he expresses an interest, is immediately blown off. This can even happen once you’ve got the girl in bed. You can have the girl all over you in a given night, but if you get fresh, she clams up, and it’s all over. There are many reasons that explain this.
One must first consider one’s conditioned responding. Think back to the last time you told a beggar you didn’t have any spare change. You might have turned him down and kept walking, but you didn’t consider it a lie. This is simply a conditioned response. The same holds true for picking up women. Oftentimes, they will employ the LJGD (let’s just do dance) technique. Perhaps your advances have turned them off. Social conditioning tells them that, “This guy is just trying to get in my pants. I think he’s cute, but this is ridiculous. I don’t want to meet a guy at a club. I just want to dance, that’s why I came out tonight.”
Moreover, how many times when you turned the beggar down did you later second guess yourself. Maybe you thought, “Dammit, maybe that guy was just down on his luck. I feel bad.”
The same is true for women. They are conditioned to filter out guys based on their conditioned response instinct. After having shunned a guy, they might think they’ve erred, but what the hell, another guy will happen by. Factors such as attraction, alpha status, or overt sexuality do not matter in situations like this. This conditioned response is instinctual and difficult to combat. For this very reason, it is necessary to approach women in a very methodical manner.
Why are women attracted to elusive men?
Naturally, women enjoy being desired. If a woman is able to simply feel desired without worrying if a man is trying to seduce her, she can focus her efforts on enjoying the exchange. Logically, when this happens, the woman convinces herself that she does indeed find herself attracted to that man. Henceforth, the woman will become obsessed with getting the man, and stop at nothing to do so, showering him with compliments, giggling around him, and even employing her friends to capture his attention. If you want to have a look learn more, become good with women and participate in the secret seduction circle then you can have a look at our amazing ebook here.
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